Separation or divorce can be a challenging and emotional time for families, particularly when it comes to determining the care and custody of children. In Australia, both parents have important rights and responsibilities regarding their children after separation, which are governed by a framework designed to ensure the best interests of the child are met. This article explores rights under Australian law, specifically in relation to the Family Law Act 1975, and addresses various questions that parents may have when navigating post-separation parenting issues.
What are each parents’ rights after separation?
Australian law recognises the importance of both parents having a meaningful relationship with their children, where possible, and encourages both parents being involved in the child’s life. However, the key consideration in all matters of parental responsibility is the best interests of the child.
Under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), there is a presumption that it is in the best interests of a child for both parents to have a meaningful relationship with them, unless there are factors that would make such a relationship harmful to the child. This applies equally to fathers and mothers.
Section 60CA of the Family Law Act 1975: What does it say?
Section 60CA of the Family Law Act 1975 is crucial when considering parenting arrangements post-separation. It explicitly states that when a court makes parenting decisions, it must consider the best interests of the child as the paramount consideration. The section also presumes that a child benefits from having both parents involved in their life, provided that it is safe for the child.
The Family Law Act also includes the following relevant provisions:
- Meaningful relationship with both parents: The Act encourages arrangements where both parents remain involved in their child’s life after separation, acknowledging the role both parents play in a child's emotional and psychological development.
- Safety concerns: If there are concerns about family violence, abuse, or harm, these will be a significant factor in determining the parenting arrangement. The law prioritises the child's safety over a relationship with both parents.
- Shared parental responsibility: Both parents are generally entitled to share responsibility for decisions about major aspects of their child’s life, such as education, health, and religious upbringing, unless a court determines otherwise.
How can a father win custody of their child?
In Australia, the term "custody" is no longer used in the Family Law Act, and instead, the focus is on parenting orders. Each parent can seek parenting orders that determine where the child will live and how time with each parent is arranged. Courts encourage both parents to be involved in the child’s care where possible, but ultimately, the child's best interests take precedence.
To win parenting orders or to have significant time with the child, a father (or any parent) must demonstrate:
- Best Interests of the child: The parent must show that the arrangement will promote the child's best interests. This might include demonstrating how the parent’s involvement in the child's life benefits their emotional, educational, and psychological needs.
- Evidence of a positive relationship: A parent who can show that he has had a meaningful relationship with the child and that his involvement is in the child’s best interests will be in a stronger position.
- Willingness to facilitate contact: Courts appreciate parents who are cooperative in facilitating the child's relationship with the other parent.
- Ability to provide a safe and stable environment: A parent must demonstrate that he can provide a safe, stable, and nurturing environment for the child.
If a parent is facing significant obstacles, such as the other parent withholding the child, he may seek legal remedies through the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. Before doing so it’s important to obtain legal advice from a lawyer specialising in family law.

What are the legal rights of an unborn child?
The Family Law Act primarily deals with the rights of children once they are born. However, Australian law does acknowledge that parents, including fathers, have rights and responsibilities during pregnancy. Fathers can seek advice about their rights regarding decisions like medical treatment or the child’s name before birth, although these matters may be less clear-cut than post-birth parenting arrangements.
In the event of a dispute, it’s best for fathers to seek legal advice early, as some rights—particularly around family violence or abuse concerns—may have implications for decisions related to the unborn child.
What happens if a parent withholds a child?
If one parent unlawfully withholds the child from the other parent or denies them access as per a parenting order, the parent has several options:
- Negotiation and mediation: Before taking formal legal action, it is recommended that you try to resolve the dispute through mediation. The family dispute resolution (FDR) process is often a mandatory step before seeking court orders.
- Applying to the court: If negotiation fails, you can apply to the court for a parenting order. The court will review the situation and determine the best interests of the child, which could include enforcing or modifying existing parenting orders.
- Enforcement orders: If a parenting order is already in place and one parent refuses to comply, the other parent may seek to enforce the order through the courts. This could lead to the parenting orders being varied, the court ordering make up time, the parent in breach being fined or held in contempt of court, plus other consequences.
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How to get the right family law advice?
Navigating family law can be complex, so it is important for parents to obtain professional legal advice. Here are the steps you can take:
- Consulting a family lawyer: A specialist family lawyer will be able to provide specific advice tailored to the parent situation, especially if there are concerns about parenting arrangements.
- Mediation services: Many family law issues, including parenting disputes, can be resolved through mediation. You can access family dispute resolution services to assist in reaching a mutually acceptable agreement.
- Legal Aid: For parents who cannot afford private legal representation, legal aid services may be available, depending on their financial circumstances. These services can help guide you through the legal process and offer representation if necessary.
- Courts and legal resources: In some cases, you may need to apply to the courts for parenting orders. The court process can be lengthy and emotionally taxing, so having legal representation is highly recommended. Legal resources, such as the FCFCOA website provide essential information on court processes and other useful information.
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